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About the book:
The book The Pistachio Theory was written by a Saudi writer
“Fahd Amer Al-Ahmadi” This book included a group of articles on aspects of change, development, and self-development, and all topics related to self-improvement, self-development, and other topics. It was written in an easy and wonderful narrative style by the writer.
It is considered one of the best books that will change the way you think and judge things.
Today we will shed light on the most important chapters of this book.
So, my dear, continue reading the article to learn about this book.
Book summary:
1:- What is your plan in life?
• The secret of life lies in clarity of purpose; And flexibility in its implementation. Because if you do not know where you are going, all roads will lead you to nothing.
• Losers are preoccupied with obstacles and problems; While successful people are busy achieving their goals.
2:- Know yourself first.
• We fail in life because of our ignorance of ourselves – first – and our insistence on everything that happens outside of ourselves.
• There is always something that distinguishes you from others…try to discover it and exploit it to excel over others.
3:- If you don’t dream of it, how will you achieve it!?
• You cannot accomplish a dream or achieve a specific goal; And you didn’t think or worry about it.
• Always dream big; Until you finally reach achievements that are less than your ambitions, but in the end they are better than the achievements of other people.
• Big dreams may end in “average” achievements. But average dreams; It will inevitably end with trivial achievements.
4:- Self-fulfilling prophecy .
• Our preconceived opinions about others; It is largely responsible for shaping the attitudes of others towards us.
•When you have a negative idea about a certain person; He will treat you the same way; Then your prophecy in him will be fulfilled; When you treat someone with positivity and confidence, they will treat you with the same positivity.
5:- You are what you think about yourself .
• We are an exact image of the person we imagine in our minds.
• You can only do the impossible; When you are convinced that you can change the future.
6: Eliminating the negatives is better than adding the positives.
•Before you think about developing yourself, you must first stop destroying yourself with your dark thoughts. In order to live without worries, you must reduce the negatives instead of adding more positives.
•If you are guaranteed to live longer; You can then postpone your great ideas until you are happy.
7:- Capsules worth trying.
• Do not waste your daily energy on complimenting a foolish person.
• When you ignore those who provoke you, you will not be accused of cowardice. When you refuse to enter into a Byzantine controversy, you will not be accused of ignorance.
• People will not see you as arrogant when you ignore fools; But they may confuse you when you decide to confront them.
8:- You may not be as smart as you think .
• The most foolish arrogant person is the one who does not know his own shortcomings.
• You can say whatever you want about yourself; But people judge you by your achievements.
• You are not as smart as you seem. When you repeat the mistake twice or have problems that have been unresolved for years.
9:- Blind spots in your brain.
• Your brain is full of blind holes; Which prevents you from seeing the facts clearly.
•When you deal with an audience; Expect to find someone who takes only what suits his or her opinion from your ideas and words.
10:- Enlarge your brain with these exercises.
• Smart people make mistakes only once; The second mistake is a personal choice, as they do not bite from the hole twice.
• Whoever does not know the way others think believes that he is the smartest in the universe.
11:- Smart people do not do the following.
• Idiots cling to their opinions, while smart people choose the best solutions.
• Whoever does not know how others think has many wrong ideas about them.
12: Intelligence simply means acting intelligently.
• Never concern yourself with definitions of intelligence, and remember that intelligent people are those who act intelligently.
•What makes intelligence is experiences and learning from mistakes, not genetic factors.
13:- Do not think about success, but rather about creating a successful habit.
• Big achievements require just a small daily habit.
•When you stick to a successful habit, you will be amazed after a year or two that you have far exceeded your goals.
14:- The thing stays still until you think about it…then it moves towards you, and this is what the book The Secret talked about.
15:- Good luck techniques.
•Fate bears a large part of our personal fortunes, and the rest can be made by our own hands. The lucky ones create their fortunes by taking advantage of appropriate opportunities to achieve their ambitions.
•The most important characteristic that distinguishes lucky people is following developments around them and exploiting their talents to reach their goals.
16:- The role of heredity and fate in the issue of luck.
Each of us inherits his luck in this life. There are those who inherit money, others who inherit health, beauty, others who inherit poverty or illness, and so on…
• The wider your circle of acquaintances, the higher your chances and the positive offers you will receive.
17:- Pistachio theory.
It’s about A story that the writer tells one of his sons to teach him a lesson that it is possible……..
• Any sudden or small act could cause a major unexpected tragedy.
Our life is moving in a straight line, so that we cannot undo the last foolishness we committed minutes ago.
18:- Twenty rules at home.
• Repeating instructions loses their value and exposes them to forgetting, unlike written instructions. Therefore, write down the most important house rules and hang them in a place where everyone can see them.
19:-Life’s little guidelines.
• No matter how old our children grow, we will still be separated by the same years that began with their birth, and your father is the only person who hopes that you will surpass him.
• The problem with parents is their belief that their children need guidance, and the problem with children is their belief that they do not need guidance from anyone.
• Even if you are not the best in this life, this does not prevent you from behaving better than you are.
20:- Be like that anyway.
• You will not do anything if you continue to look at the negative aspects of every beautiful act.
• Act as you are and not as people treat you, and prevent them from controlling you.
21:- Fallacies that you should pay attention to.
•People can say anything except acknowledge the validity of your opinion.
•Debate fallacies not only make us look like idiots, but they also deprive us of the opportunity to learn new things.
•The worst fallacies are those that rely on true facts but an issue that does not concern you.
22:- Do not cite majority or seniority.
•People do not seek to prove the truth, but rather to present their idea of the truth they desire.
•Old ideas enjoy great sanctity, but that does not mean that they are correct
23:- Do not ask for evidence of what you claim.
Do not accept the burden of proof being transferred to you, as the proof is on the one who claims, not on the one who denies.
•One of the fallacies of debate is presenting very strong evidence on issues that were not even raised.
24:- The first and the closest……distort your ability.
• The human mind remains hostage to the first idea that preceded it.
• Judgmentally
(the closest and the earliest) Closed societies obscure the minds of their children and prevent them from critical analytical thinking.
25:- Not because you love him.
•The problem with the human mind is that it categorizes people into molds, and refuses to break them even if it becomes clear to it otherwise.
• If you only listen to those you love, and read only those who agree with you, you will not add anything new to your collection.
26:- Your personal convictions are not sacred ideas.
• Simply believing that your opinion is correct means obstructing your mind from other possibilities.
27:- What do you know about logic?
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Logic: A way of thinking that looks at reality and results, and ignores bias and the influence of culture and tendencies.
28:- The simplest explanation is the closest to correctness.
• Semi-scientists present thousands of complex hypotheses, while the real world presents one theory that is closer to understanding and logic.
29:- Stop asking questions…and start asking questions.
•A question is a quick inquiry to find out the answer, but a question is a silent self-search that may take a whole life.
30:- Brainwash yourself.
• Our thoughts shape our personalities, so wash your brain yourself before society washes it on your behalf.
• Self-talk is like a (psychological session) that prepares us from the inside to face the outside.
• Your constant questioning of others means that you have disabled your mind, suppressed your opinion, and shut down your criticism mechanism.
31_The origin, the exception, and the fifth man.
•The greater our circle of knowledge, the greater our sphere of contact with the unknown and unknown.
When ignorance mixes with fanaticism, a man emerges who does not know and does not want to know that he does not know.
32:- Think in the six hats way.
•Problems like cubes have 6 faces, try to see them from all sides.
• Being satisfied with your mind is arrogance, and thinking about the minds of others is your intelligence.
33:- Think like a tree.
• A person thinks in a straight and continuous way, while pen and paper take him in many branching directions.
34:- Well behaved list.
• Happiness, success, and wealth are not plans but the wishes of all human beings.
• The more organized and clear the tasks are in your head, the easier it will be for you to carry them out in record time.
35:- Search for (20%).
• 80% of your success depends on 20% of your effort.
36_Then…work more efficiently and with less effort.
• Immediately get rid of habits and behaviors that require great effort and little gain.
37:- Haste is from the devil…. As for speed, it is an indicator of experience.
• When you think you have enough time to complete any task, you will be late in completing it.
• Experts rush but do not rush, and losers rush but do not end up with anything.
38: In order not to ruin your life, do not cause 90% (your reaction).
• You will not be able to prevent others from harming you, but you can prevent them from seeing the consequences of that on you.
39:- The best profession in the world.
• The best profession in the world is your hobby that you love (
+) A large income you receive for practicing it publicly. The simplest evidence of this is artists and athletes.
40_:- Who are you: a leader or a manager?
• The director is the one who organizes the convoy, and the leader is the one who leads it and takes charge of the route.
41:- Do not put yourself in a corner…but…push others.
• When completing a task of yours, assume that it will cost you more money and time than you expect. However, if the task concerns employees, give them the least possible time and the least budget, and do not offer more until you are certain that they will inevitably fail.
42:- How do you know that you are an important person?
• Your value in this life is determined by the sum of your services to people.
43:- Do not treat people the way they treat you .
• You are not obligated to respect everyone, but you are supposed to treat everyone with respect.
• Treating people well is not a selective matter, but rather interacting with people with good manners.
44:- Try speaking to hearts.
• Appealing to hearts and feelings is no less important than resorting to official laws and regulations.
45:- Why is dream the master of morals?
• Revenge is an expected response from everyone, but dreaming is a self-discipline that only great people surprise us with, as they turn enemies into friends through good treatment.
46:- And finally ..Our life is not a keyboard .
• With regard to the mistakes of the past, we have no choice but to forget them, reconcile with them, and take a vow after repeating them.
• The mistakes that we hope to undo were present when we hesitated to make them in the past.
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